94% of the time the way a discussion starts determines the way it will end.” -John Gottman
All’s well that begins well with the Speaker-Listener Technique. Today we’ll elaborate on three Pointers for the Speaker’s Startup:
- Use “I” statements,
- Focus on the Problem, not the other person,
- Avoid absolute statements (you always, you never),
- Keep It Positive,
- Don’t be afraid to ask for outside help.
If you find you do need help, we’re here for you. Schedule a Let’s Get Through This Together appointment that offers a 50% discount for a one hour coaching session to personally help you through fear or conflict in your life with either Coach Dave or Coach Sue. Or bring your friend, partner or family member and join us for our “Hands On Communication Workshop” Tuesday April 28 7pm pst. This will put some details to the Speaker Listener Techniques as well as give you some practice!